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Monday, August 3, 2009

Introduction

1.WOMEN IN ACTION :

I believe that ladies have beauty of an eve and strength of men in them. The very term wo"men" has got both genders in it. This is shows that woman is not only the replica of Physical elegance but also the reflection of her inner strength, intelligence, talent, creativity, sincerity, responsibility, caring & love. There is a tremendous advancement in women where they lift their head high and keep up their standard in every field like education, domestic work, employment, social activities and miscellaneous fields, Women are not behind the door like in olden days, they proved their efficiency and talent in what ever the job there are offered, I think this is evident when we observe the beauties walking on a ramp for a talent show or by the daring ministers who rule a country.

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2.PROBLEMS OF WORKING WOMEN:

Women in recent years have developed a great deal in education and their work field. They proved themselves that they are no way less than me in any field like education, medicine and technology. They excelled excellently showing that women are not just "home makers" but also capable of managing their jobs. In spite of their talent, hard work and sincere effort women face many problems at home and work place. I think it is because maximum burden of home maintenance falls on women. She is expected to complete her job as house wife before she leaves to work. Her day starts right from arranging food, clothing, hot water, washing, cleaning and satisfying need of the family. I feel most of the women lack time for their personal care and grooming in this process.

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3.STRESS IN WORKING WOMEN:

I get up early in the morning and the thought that gives palpitation in my "job" that waits ahead for that day. I pray, meditate, have a fresh cup of coffee and relax for a while. This simple act in the morning pushes my tension aside. I plan my day balancing any work at home and aside. I check for my "help lines" availability. This helps me to ease my tensed nerves. I prepare myself to face the day with confidence and strength. That gives a happy end for the day. I wonder how the other working women cope up with their stressful routine. If we practically look into issue of "stress in working women", I think it definitely strikes that women are under great pressure. It is because they have to take care of their responsibility as house wives and task performers at their work place. Some women feel that 24X7 time schedule is inadequate to accomplish the tasks given to them.

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4.ROLE OF WOMEN AT HOME AND SOCIETY:

Women in past years were confined to home. They remained as house wives for a long period performing the household tasks given to them. In this male dominated society women remained as a care giver to the parents, in-laws, husband and other family members. The main reason is lack of education in women. It was the duty of men to go out, earn money and to arrange for daily living or to meet all financial requirements of family members. Women were expected to obey whatever the decision the "men made". It was considered an insult for the family for a woman "go out", work equal with men, or to stand equally to them in any field.

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5.DOMESTIC VIOLENCE THAT WOMEN FACE :

Women are considered as weaker group in society. I feel various factors influence this aspect of "weakness" in women. It starts right from the home itself. I keep watching women who are "made" weak and helpless when the expected demands of the other family members are not met by them. This unmet need by women is reflected as domestic violence on their lives. It is pathetic to observe and understand that many women despite of the service, love, care they render to the family members, still suffer from domestic violence. The reasons could be multi dimensional like dowry problems, lack of financial background, lack of support, lack of education or beauty or it could just be the "selfish" desires of the other family members who expect the lady to "fulfil", if not make them face the punishment.

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6.TIPS TO MAINTAIN HEALTH IN WOMEN :

Women are the delicate, sweet, beautiful, elegant creation of God. They are the "home makers" and "task performers" at job. They carry on their lives with a smile in rough times. They take what ever life offers them. They enjoy with cheerful people cry with sorrow hearted. They care and support who ever need their help. They work hard to manage the family and see that the daily demands are met appropriately. They perform their job perfectly at work place. They try to ignore the stress, tiredness and any pain or mental agony they face. Here are a few steps for our ladies to follow in maintaining physical, emotional and mental wellbeing. I hope this would help women to lighten up stress and reduce susceptibility to illness.

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7.BEAUTY TIPS THAT A WOMEN SHOULD FOLLOW:

"Smile" this increases your face value says one of the famous writer. I believe that woman is one of the beautiful creative thought of God. We tend to pause for a movement at the sight of the passing beauty. In fairy tales characters like Cinderella, sleeping beauty, Rupeanzel reflect the imagination of many young girls who want to be beautiful like them. Recent years of development in women started putting on lot of stress on them. This stress, anxiety, tension, lack of time for personal care tends to reduce the natural "glow" on the face, sometimes lack of feasibility to beauty parlours or skin clinics also adds to the problem.

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8.TEENAGE PROBLEMS :

Teenage is the period where the mental and physical transformation occurs. This transitional period is faced with confusion and conflict. The growth and development, change in hormones creates frustration, out bursts, stress and poor decision making in youngsters. This period is the crucial time to put teenagers into right track in life parents and family should understand that the behaviour of the teenager is mainly affected by the following aspects.

*Confusion about physical body changes

*Increased consciousness about self and personal appearance

*Peer group influence

*Availability of free time, money and freedom.

*Curiosity to know about their body changes, opposite sex and tendency to experiment.

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9.CHILD ABUSE :

Children are the ones who make the home "complete". They are the creatures of happiness, joy and cheerfulness in the society. They give us pleasure with their innocent deeds. Kids give us enjoyment with their babbling and unlimited chatter. They wipe away our sorrow with their sweet and loving smile. Children are created to give us "A new life", to teach us caring, sharing, patience, loving, nursing and unbounded empathy. I just cannot think world without kid. They make every celebration colourful. The childhood mischief becomes favourite memories I can say children give us inspiration to thrive forward and settle them well in their live when troubles overwhelm us. I wonder how can any one "abuse" these wonderful creatures. Abusing children has become a common habit now. In well developed countries also abuse is a major problem. Some times these issues are made public where as many times kids are "made" silent. Many children’s pain goes unnoticed. Innocent children are being beaten. Bruised, molested, harasses in sadistic ways in many parts of the world.

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Sunday, August 2, 2009

WOMEN IN ACTION

I believe that ladies have beauty of an eve and strength of men in them. The very term wo"men" has got both genders in it. This is shows that woman is not only the replica of Physical elegance but also the reflection of her inner strength, intelligence, talent, creativity, sincerity, responsibility, caring & love. There is a tremendous advancement in women where they lift their head high and keep up their standard in every field like education, domestic work, employment, social activities and miscellaneous fields,
Women are not behind the door like in olden days, they proved their efficiency and talent in what ever the job there are offered, I think this is evident when we observe the beauties walking on a ramp for a talent show or by the daring ministers who rule a country.
In this context, I regret to point out the particular section of women still remain "silent" or may be they are "silenced" I should say, who are unable to come out from behind the screen into the light. It's sad to think that this category of women suffer from variety of problems ranging from domestic violence to public harassment.
I strongly feel and accept that "change" should come with in the women herself to revolt against her own "problems" by seeking right help at the right, either in the form of counselling, financial assistance, emotional support, employment offers etc. I suggest that it's the responsibility of each one of us to bring out helping hands from their dark unseen world of violence, depression, suppression, tears and helplessness. It's because woman is the light of the home, as it is said by an Indian proverb and I can say it's true because women is the centre of generation of human being it's starts itself.
If we can go into the depth of this area, it can be clearly seen that women, whether they are literates or illiterates, beautiful or simple, working or housewives, are struggling to go forward to reach their unmet goals. I invite every one to ponder about such problems and offer solution or assistance out of heartfelt need to reach out these delicate helpless ladies. I think we don’t need to run miles afar for the same. I would like to gently point out that one that requires your help could be your own sister, daughter, friends, colleague, neighbour or one that travels with you. In my own experience there are many, I can say with dignity, many women came out of events and problems that were solved with my assistance at the right time. But I realized am only a drop of water in the sea. Just think if the whole society takes an active part in reformation of women's role & life to wipe away the tears and bring back the smile on "her" face. That is where resolution stands right! I wish and hope this enlightening starts right at home till the end of the world, where the laughter of women lasts forever and ever. This might be the dream of many that can be achieved only through the hands that help each other and support giving an out standing impact on women's life.